Unhooking from Unwanted Thoughts and Feelings: An Introduction to Defusion in ACT Our minds are constantly buzzing with thoughts—some helpful, some neutral, and others that can pull us into a cycle of worry, self-criticism, or distress. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) offers a unique approach to dealing with difficult thoughts and emotions, one of which […]
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What Comes First: Motivation or Action?
Many of us wait for motivation to strike before taking action. We tell ourselves, “I’ll start exercising when I feel motivated” or “I’ll work on that project when I’m in the right mindset.” But what if we’ve got it backwards? The Myth of Waiting for Motivation Motivation is often seen as the driving force behind […]
The Three Life Choices
The Three Choices We Always Have in Life Life is full of challenges, unexpected twists, and moments that test our patience, resilience, and strength. No matter what situation we find ourselves in, we always have three choices: accept it, change it, or leave it. Recognising these options helps us gain perspective and take control of […]
7 Practical Tips for Staying Mindful Throughout the Day
In our busy modern lives, staying mindful can feel elusive. With endless to-do lists and constant distractions, staying present can be a challenge. However, cultivating mindfulness doesn’t require hours of meditation or drastic lifestyle changes. By integrating small practices into your daily routine, you can foster a greater sense of awareness, calm, and connection to […]
Successfully Navigating the Summer School Holidays: A Guide for Parents
The summer school holidays can be both a time of joy and a challenge for parents. With the long weeks ahead, it can feel overwhelming to keep children engaged, happy, and well-balanced. However, with a little planning and flexibility, the summer break can become an enriching experience for the whole family. Here are some practical […]
How Do I Find a Counsellor That’s Right for Me?
Seeking a counsellor can be a transformative step towards personal growth, healing, or simply navigating life’s challenges. However, finding the right counsellor can feel overwhelming. With countless options available, how do you choose someone you’ll feel comfortable with and who aligns with your needs? Here are some practical tips to help you find the counsellor […]
Coping with Loneliness
Coping with Loneliness: Building Meaningful Connections Loneliness is a universal experience that can affect anyone, regardless of age, background, or social status. It can manifest as a profound sense of isolation, even when surrounded by others. In our increasingly digital world, feelings of loneliness are becoming more prevalent, as genuine human connections are often replaced […]
Managing Anger and Frustration
Managing Anger and Frustration: Techniques for Healthy Emotional Regulation Anger and frustration are natural human emotions that everyone experiences at some point in life. They are signals that something is amiss, prompting us to address issues that may be causing distress. However, when not managed effectively, these emotions can lead to harmful consequences, both for […]
Navigating Midlife Transitions
Navigating Midlife Transitions: Embracing the Emotional Journey Midlife is often portrayed as a period of crisis, filled with angst and upheaval. However, it can also be a time of profound growth and opportunity. As we navigate the transitions that come with this stage of life, it’s essential to approach the journey with a sense of […]
Navigating Relationships with Narcissists
Navigating Relationships with Narcissists: Strategies for Personal and Professional Settings Relationships are inherently complex, but dealing with narcissistic individuals adds an extra layer of challenge. Whether in personal or professional settings, narcissists can create environments that are emotionally draining and psychologically taxing. Understanding how to navigate these relationships is crucial for maintaining your own well-being. […]