The Importance of Knowing Your Values – And How to Discover Them In a world full of noise, knowing what truly matters to you is like having a compass in a storm. Your personal values are the principles and qualities that give your life meaning and direction. Whether you’re navigating big life decisions or simply […]
Starting therapy can feel like a big step—exciting for some, nerve-wracking for others. If you’re considering counselling but feel unsure about what to expect in your first session, you’re not alone. Many people have questions about the process, from what will be discussed to how they’ll feel afterward. Here’s a breakdown of what typically happens […]
Unhooking from Unwanted Thoughts and Feelings: An Introduction to Defusion in ACT Our minds are constantly buzzing with thoughts—some helpful, some neutral, and others that can pull us into a cycle of worry, self-criticism, or distress. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) offers a unique approach to dealing with difficult thoughts and emotions, one of which […]
Many of us wait for motivation to strike before taking action. We tell ourselves, “I’ll start exercising when I feel motivated” or “I’ll work on that project when I’m in the right mindset.” But what if we’ve got it backwards? The Myth of Waiting for Motivation Motivation is often seen as the driving force behind […]
The Three Choices We Always Have in Life Life is full of challenges, unexpected twists, and moments that test our patience, resilience, and strength. No matter what situation we find ourselves in, we always have three choices: accept it, change it, or leave it. Recognising these options helps us gain perspective and take control of […]
In our busy modern lives, staying mindful can feel elusive. With endless to-do lists and constant distractions, staying present can be a challenge. However, cultivating mindfulness doesn’t require hours of meditation or drastic lifestyle changes. By integrating small practices into your daily routine, you can foster a greater sense of awareness, calm, and connection to […]
The summer school holidays can be both a time of joy and a challenge for parents. With the long weeks ahead, it can feel overwhelming to keep children engaged, happy, and well-balanced. However, with a little planning and flexibility, the summer break can become an enriching experience for the whole family. Here are some practical […]
Seeking a counsellor can be a transformative step towards personal growth, healing, or simply navigating life’s challenges. However, finding the right counsellor can feel overwhelming. With countless options available, how do you choose someone you’ll feel comfortable with and who aligns with your needs? Here are some practical tips to help you find the counsellor […]
Coping with Loneliness: Building Meaningful Connections Loneliness is a universal experience that can affect anyone, regardless of age, background, or social status. It can manifest as a profound sense of isolation, even when surrounded by others. In our increasingly digital world, feelings of loneliness are becoming more prevalent, as genuine human connections are often replaced […]
Managing Anger and Frustration: Techniques for Healthy Emotional Regulation Anger and frustration are natural human emotions that everyone experiences at some point in life. They are signals that something is amiss, prompting us to address issues that may be causing distress. However, when not managed effectively, these emotions can lead to harmful consequences, both for […]