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Which Counselling Format Is Right for You?

Face-to-Face, Online or Telephone Counselling: Which Is Right for You? When starting counselling, one of the first choices you’ll make is how you’d like to attend your sessions. Sunny Coast Counselling offer counselling sessions via face-to-face, online (via video), or over the phone. Each option has its own benefits and challenges, and the “right” choice depends on […]

Why We Use Metaphors in ACT Therapy

In Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), you might notice we use stories and images rather than just talking in technical terms. You may hear about things like passengers on a bus, tug-of-war with a monster, or leaves floating down a stream. This isn’t to be clever or confusing — it’s because metaphors help people understand their inner world […]

EAP Post-Incident Support

Why Post-Incident Counselling Support Is Essential After a Critical Workplace Incident A critical incident in the workplace — such as a serious accident, sudden death, violence, or traumatic event — doesn’t just affect operations. It affects people. Even when the immediate physical risks are managed, the emotional and psychological impact on staff can linger long […]

The Gottman Golden Ratio: Why It Matters for Healthy Relationships

If you’ve ever wondered why some couples seem to stay close and connected even through tough times, while others get stuck in cycles of blame or distance, one of the most helpful tools we have comes from the work of Drs John and Julie Gottman. Their research has identified a simple but powerful pattern that […]

Transactional Analysis: A Simple Framework for Better Communication

Transactional Analysis (often called TA) is a practical psychological model that helps us understand why we communicate the way we do—and how small shifts can make our interactions calmer, clearer, and more connected. Developed by psychiatrist Eric Berne, TA suggests that we all move between three “ego states” in everyday conversations: 1. Parent This is the part […]

Book Summary: Plain Life by Antonia Pont

Antonia Pont’s Plain Life: On Thinking, Feeling and Deciding is a thoughtful, grounded exploration of what it means to live well—not in a grand, performative, or productivity-driven sense, but in a steady, attentive, deeply human way. For counselling clients, especially those navigating stress, decision-making, emotional overwhelm or the pressures of “getting life right,” Pont’s writing offers a […]

What to Do if Couples Counselling Isn’t Working for You

Couples counselling can be a powerful way to reconnect, communicate better, and work through challenges together. But what happens if it doesn’t seem to be helping? Many couples feel frustrated or disheartened when therapy doesn’t lead to the change they hoped for. If you find yourself in this position, it doesn’t necessarily mean your relationship—or […]