Author: John Belchamber

The Benefits of Self-care

Self-care has become a buzzword in recent years, but what does it really mean and why is it important for mental health? Simply put, self-care refers to taking care of your physical, emotional, and mental health by engaging in activities that promote relaxation, stress relief, and overall well-being. While self-care may look different for everyone, […]

The Benefits of Counselling

Counselling is a type of therapy that can be incredibly beneficial for individuals who are struggling with a variety of issues. From relationship problems to mental health concerns, counselling provides a safe and supportive space for individuals to explore their thoughts and feelings, and develop strategies for overcoming their challenges. One of the main benefits […]

Gottman’s Sound Relationship House

Gottman’s Sound Relationship House is a model developed by psychologists Drs. John and Julie Gottman, based on their extensive research on relationships. The model is designed to help couples understand the key elements that make up a healthy and satisfying relationship. The Sound Relationship House consists of nine building blocks, each of which represents a […]

Gottman’s Four Horsemen

Gottman’s Four Horsemen is a term coined by psychologist Drs. John and Julie Gottman, who have studied relationships for over 40 years. They have identified four communication patterns that are particularly damaging to relationships: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. These communication patterns are referred to as “The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse” because of the […]

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is a type of psychotherapy that focuses on helping individuals increase psychological flexibility and live a more meaningful life. Developed in the 1980s by Steven C. Hayes, ACT is based on the idea that psychological suffering is caused by an inability to accept certain thoughts, emotions, and sensations, and by […]

Hows Does Your Mind Hook You?

How Does Your Mind Hook You? The human mind is excellent at telling stories which we get hooked on, believing that they are instructions for living our life, rather than just being thoughts and feelings to observe. Action and Commitment Therapy (ACT) provides tools to unhook ourselves from such stories. The stories our mind sends […]

Dropping Anchor

Dropping Anchor is a technique taken from Dr. Russ Harris’s excellent book, The happiness Trap. This simple mindfulness technique can help you weather any emotional ‘storm’ and bring you back into the present, calm and ready to face the day. This image series first appeared on our Facebook Page and Instagram accounts. For further information […]