Understanding Your Behaviour: How the Stimulus–Thought–Emotion/Feeling–Behaviour–Consequence Model Can Help You Understand Yourself Ever found yourself overreacting to something small and wondering afterwards, “Why did I do that?” Or maybe you keep getting stuck in the same patterns — like procrastinating, getting defensive, or feeling anxious — and you’re not sure how to change it. There’s […]
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Knowing Your Values
The Importance of Knowing Your Values – And How to Discover Them In a world full of noise, knowing what truly matters to you is like having a compass in a storm. Your personal values are the principles and qualities that give your life meaning and direction. Whether you’re navigating big life decisions or simply […]
Understanding Stress
Stress is a word we hear often, and usually not in a positive light. It’s commonly linked to burnout, anxiety, and overwhelm. But not all stress is bad. Some stress can be helpful, even healthy. The key is understanding the difference between good stress and bad stress, and how each affects us physically, emotionally, and […]
What Should I Expect in My First Therapy Session?
Starting therapy can feel like a big step—exciting for some, nerve-wracking for others. If you’re considering counselling but feel unsure about what to expect in your first session, you’re not alone. Many people have questions about the process, from what will be discussed to how they’ll feel afterward. Here’s a breakdown of what typically happens […]
How Can Couples Therapy Help Relationships?
Every relationship has its ups and downs. Whether you’re navigating a rough patch, feeling emotionally distant, or just want to strengthen your bond, couples therapy can offer a safe and supportive space to reconnect. But how exactly does it work—and what can it really do for your relationship? 1. Improved Communication At the heart of many […]
Stop Saying “But” – Use “And” Instead
Stop Saying “But” – Use “And” Instead: A Simple Shift for Better Communication Have you ever noticed how the word “but” can shut down a conversation, create defensiveness, or even diminish the power of your own words? While it may seem like a harmless conjunction, “but” often acts as a roadblock in communication. On the […]
Self-Actualisation: A Path to Personal Growth
Carl Rogers’ Theory of Self-Actualisation: A Path to Personal Growth Carl Rogers, a pioneering figure in humanistic psychology, believed that every person has an innate drive towards self-actualisation—the process of realising one’s full potential. Unlike Abraham Maslow’s hierarchical approach to self-actualisation, Rogers viewed it as a continuous journey rather than a final destination. According to […]
Australian Teacher Wellbeing
Australian Teacher Wellbeing – Research into the mental wellbeing of Australian teachers highlights significant challenges related to stress, burnout, and the need for systemic support. Prevalence of Stress and Burnout: A study conducted over 18 months prior to the COVID-19 pandemic surveyed 749 Australian teachers, revealing high levels of work-related stress and burnout. Factors contributing […]
Book Review: The War for Kindness
Book Review: In The War for Kindness: Building Empathy in a Fractured World, Stanford psychologist Jamil Zaki explores a timely and urgent question: can we cultivate empathy in a world increasingly divided by social, political, and ideological differences? Through a compelling blend of scientific research, real-world stories, and personal reflections, Zaki makes a powerful case that […]
Introducing the Educator Support Program (ESP)
ESP: Supporting Those Who Shape the Future At Sunny Coast Counselling, we know that teaching is more than just a job, it’s a calling. But with increasing workloads, emotional demands, and ever-changing educational expectations, many teachers find themselves struggling to balance their own well-being with their professional responsibilities. That’s why we’re excited to launch our […]